Clearing the Path for Adoption to Grow
This post is part of a series on the cause of orphan care, adoption and social change that I hope to make you as passionate about as I am. You may want to start from the beginning if you’re just joining us.

We just established the four obstacles that often serve to keep people from freely pursuing adoption, and have slowed the growth of adoption as a partial solution to the global orphan crisis.
While this isn’t an exhaustive list, here are four steps I think we need to take to remove those obstacles, and another four strategies you can use to directly engage in building solutions.
- We need to make it simpler for potential adoptive parents to get started and understand the pros and cons of the three major adoption choices (international, private domestic and foster adoption).
- We need to make adoption less expensive where we can, and help people understand how they can finance the costs if they aren’t personally wealthy. Most people don’t realize there are a number of grant opportunities, zero-interest adoption loans, and a large refundable federal tax credit to support adoption. Cost should never be an obstacle to uniting a waiting child with willing parents.
- We need to make it easier for adoptive parents to get pre- and post-adoption support to learn the parenting skills they will need to make it through tough times, excel in the many good times and develop each precious child to their full potential.
- We need to reform our local foster care systems to work extensively to reunite children with birth parents for a reasonable period of time, and then shift the emphasis to finding permanence for that child – either through intra-family adoption, or adoption by willing foster parents. (I’ve heard some amazing things about the State of Colorado’s efforts to build permanence into their policy and staffing structure.)
What can you do?
There are a number of contributions you can make to be a part of this solution to the global orphan crisis.
- Adopt a child. Many people aren’t sure they have it in them; others are quite willing but just need help with some of the obstacles. Summoning the will to become an adoptive parent is a long-term investment that will reap rich rewards. I speak from experience!
And while you’re in the process of becoming an adoptive parent, remember to open yourself up to other families who might be thinking about making that leap. As another adoptive parent said, “it’s hard to tell your friends, ‘we still need X to cover our travel costs’ but in asking them to pray with us about our needs, we’re giving them the wonderful opportunity to see God at work in our adoption.” - Contribute financially to an adoption. When you hear of a family beginning the adoption process, understand the immense expense they are likely undertaking. Ask how you can help. It’s amazing how a little can go such a long way – between grants, gifts and a unique fundraiser my wife designed by sewing “aprons for adoption” – we owed $16,687 for our first adoption and on the day it was due, we had $16,604 in our adoption fund. We didn’t consider that a coincidence, and we were so grateful for the constant generosity of families and friends.
- Adopt a prospective adoptive family. Perhaps you’re not in a position to become an adoptive parent yourself, but you want to go further than just a financial contribution. Could you form a partnership with another family that is considering an adoption, but is worried about whether or not they can pull it off? Perhaps all they need is access to babysitting, or a loan to finance some of the costs, or help starting a college fund for this child. What a joy you will share with that family and that child that you played such a significant part in creating permanence for.
- Support reforms that will establish permanence for children as a top priority. I’m looking forward to the day when local foster care systems and UNICEF all understand the permanence of a family as the best interests of every child. We need to work through our government – local, state and federal officials – to make these policy changes happen. Great progress is being made, but we can’t rest until the work is done.
I hope this set of posts on adoption has made it clear both how important adoption is in fighting the global orphan crisis. That leads to another question: what can we do to help the over 80% of orphans who aren’t being adopted today? That’s next.
Next Post: Orphan Care: A Lifeline for Over 80% of Orphaned Children
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